Health Ed was a decent class my sophomore year. Our teacher was down to earth in that crunchy lesbian way. She had no qualms about bringing in guest speakers that made us uncomfortable, including a date rape survivor. One speaker that still sticks in my mind was a young black man who came in to discuss the different types of birth control and disease-preventative options when it came to sex.
He had a familiar variety of prophylactics including the female condom, diaphragm, spermicide, and the Pill. But then he pulled out a square of latex and started stretching it while asking us if we knew what it was.
"Some of you might recognize this because your dentist may use one when you go in for a check-up. Any ideas? No?" he queried as the latex shrunk and expanded between his hands. "It's a dental dam."
A confused silence fell over the room.
"You use it to cover the vagina when performing oral sex."
The silence gave way to giggles and a low buzz. I stared at the dental dam and could only think of was how it reminded me of the plastic on the back of a piece of Fruit Roll-Up.
The good thing about that class was that the information was still useful a couple years later. That's all you can ask for, right?
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4 comments:
I have no idea what you meant by that.
Having grown up in the 70's, before the age of AIDS, sex ed was somewhat different, but fundamentally the same. As you point out though, this whole "abstinence only" idea was not on the table. The plain fact was that we all recognized that teenagers were having sex, the teachers knew it, so they tried to pass along as much information as possible. If anything, most of our parents were relived that someone other than themselves were discussing sex with their children, as they were from the era when such things were either not discussed, or done so in whisper. What I learned was from both the classroom and the real world........Although, I'm glad I never needed to use a "dental dam." Kinda takes the fun out of things, though I understand the need for it.
Mr. Nighttime - who was treating AIDS patients when it was known as GRID, and who watched his father die from AIDS. (blood transfusion)
Heh, my sex ed teacher in high school was our high school football teacher. His advice about STDs was 'don't get 'em!'' That's it. A very gruff uptight old man.
Matt can tell you more about him.
YAY for health ed! 7th grade health class was the first time I learned what a lesbian was. And did that ever answer a lot of questions! I finally understood why I enjoyed checking out the girls legs and smiles instead of the boys butts. :)
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